Males are more common to give the impression of being a heartbreaker whenever a relationship seems to fail or did not work out the way it should have been. The issue of most people having this general thought that all guys are actually the same, which is a jerk, and will automatically prevent themselves or advise their loved ones to be extra cautious when dealing with man especially meeting a new individual or a stranger comes from the single perception where guys are to be blame whenever a broken relationship took place.
It can’t be denied that there are such people that fool around with relationship and they tend to break hearts in exchange for personal satisfaction and desire but do not take things for granted, as nothing is certain in this world and people can’t make assumption that everyone is the same even if one has met such person and lost faith and trust in males. Apart from those immoral and evil, an unsuccessful relationship should not had put all the blames on the male side as the bond was built by two person together at the beginning but when it reaches the end, man will have to bear the blames.
Optimistically speaking, most men will have this mindset which they somehow has already programmed it since they don’t even know when and will automatically practice it when they found their love one. This frame of mind had actually put men in a state where they have no qualification to be blissful; they will only furnish their couple with bliss and pleasure coz somehow they are more tend to be in giving rather than receiving. All men had ever wished for are the contentment and the happiness resulted from the smile from their loves one being appreciated and cherished by them.
Men are unique in their own way seeing that they will actually give everything, and it really do mean everything once they had decided that you are the one for him. Man will love you with no boundaries, no restriction and no matter what, love and care is all he will give even at the starting or beginning of a new relationship, as long as he feels that you will be the one that will stand by his side till the rest of his life. This is mainly because men really do appreciate their loved one and because they are afraid to lose what’s most precious to them, they are more enthusiastic in giving more and more love and concern in order to feel secured.
If by any chances or reasons that a relationship does not work out, men will be slightly more single-minded and harsh in handling broken relationship but it doesn’t mean that the man is not real and true. Men are always true and sincere in relationship, it’s just that they change fast, as they will keep on looking for someone who really does know how to appreciates their love and sincerity, someone who will be grateful with all the efforts and heart that they had pours in, someone who be thankful for every single thing that they had done. Man does not really need your promise or your full commitment in a relationship and still can bear with all kind of your attitudes as long as you show him a little bit of recognition and appreciation.
Another accusation that most guys will need to abide is flirting but the fact is guys don’t really intend to talk sweet when the words are uttered out, it’s just a piece of their heart that they would like their other half to know and even it does sound sweet and unrealistic, it doesn’t mean it’s not the truth that a man is trying to let you aware of. It just sounds fake as the words are commonly used but somehow, sugary words are essentials to add some flavour to maintain or to develop a relationship. To be fair, never look at a guy as holy as god, as good as an angel or as perfect as the one and at the same time never judge a guy based on their appearance or directly penalized a man being a jerk, assuming guys are all terrible and bad.
A guy can give you his whole world or give up even more than the whole world just for you IF you just could show a little bit of appreciation.
A guy can go through every obstacles, no how hard or how tough, even risking his life and still he will hold tight onto you hand IF you could just show a little bit of anticipation.
A guy can forgive whatever you have done, no matter how wrongly you did it, and still he will pamper you like a princess IF you could just show a little bit of reflection.
A guy can replace you in any tough situation, even troubling and getting himself in deep shit just for you being a little more comfortable IF you could just show a little bit of consideration.
A guy can give you endless love, without hoping for the same from you, no matter how many times you broke his heart or throw away his sincerity IF you could just show a little bit of realization.
A guy can do whatever you ask him to, no matter how disgraceful it is or how moronic it will be and still he show you a smile on his face IF you could just show a little bit of recognition.
A guy can still keep on talking to you, spoil you, cherish you and even treat you as the world most precious thing even he has a lot of unsolved and complicated problems within him, even he is in the middle of his hectic and tiring work IF you could just show a little bit of indication.
A guy will never give up on you, holding you even tighter and putting you in front of his own life no matter how tough the future will be and how hard the life would be IF you could just show a little bit of toleration.
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